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HOW TO RESOLVE ISSUES AND CONFLICTS WITH YOUR FRIENDS

It’s normal to have conflicts with friends. There are some things that you just don’t agree with. Friend fights are normal if you care for your friends and you love each other. It can be a little bit hard to resolve conflicts without proper communication. The trick is to always try to understand each other. Try to communicate in a mature way and find what you can do to appease your feelings. Don’t forget to tell them the truth and be honest about everything. Arguments will not be solved if you hold hard feelings and grudges with other.

HOW TO RESOLVE ISSUES AND CONFLICTS WITH YOUR FRIENDS

Here is the way to help you resolve conflicts with your friends:

 

Identify the problem

Sometimes the hardest part is stating and understanding the obvious. It can be pretty hard to accept to yourself that there is actually a problem. Determining where and what the problem is if you don’t know where to look. Make sure that the problem includes you and that it’s not only that your friend/s are just having a rough day.

Take a look from their perspective

Talk to them. Ask them what they think and locate yourself in the shoes of your friend. Then think if you’re your friend what would you do?

Leave your friend/s alone for a little bit

Try not to bombard them with questions and demands. It is during these times that your friend is the most sensitive.  Give them space and time to think and breathe. It’s better to let them get the steam off a little bit. If they’re ready to talk, they will come around.

Consider the things you can do

If you know your friend/s very well, then consider the things you can do to resolve it. It can be talking it out over food or ask your other friend to talk to that friend about what’s bothering her. Every situation is going to be different. The best option is to try and communicate with them.

Choose an option and do it

It’s not just okay that you think all about it. You have to take affirmative action. Admit to yourself and to that friend if you have any fault and shortcomings. Best case scenario, they will feel better and you can encourage them to do the same thing too.

Wait and see

Let your friend think over it for a little bit. This kinds of scenarios cannot be rushed because emotions are involved. Take it slow and wait how and what your friend is going to do about it.

Accept the final outcome

If your friend decides to cut your friendship for good, then just accept it as it is. You have nothing to do about it anymore. You can’t force a person to change their decisions in life. The trick is to know to yourself that you did what you could do best with the situation and that you tried.

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TOP ISSUES OF 2016 THAT DOMINATED THE NEWS

2016 was one heck of a year. Some people even considered it as a very bad year. Now that’s quite a very strong word to describe the past year. BreXit, Terror Attacks, Syria, Trump, Police Shootings and the losses of our favorite celebrities are one of the few events that certainly affected our lives and they were all around the calendar. Terrifying events have truly piled up during the last year. Are we greatly affected by it because we are more connected to these news more than ever? Or is it because these negative happenings are just truly too terrifying and concerning to even ignore?

TOP ISSUES OF 2016 THAT DOMINATED THE NEWS

 

Now that it has ended, let’s go back to the issues that completely blew up our notifications and dominated our news.

Isis

It stands for Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant. They are the terrorist groups that has gained a great power and control around the world thanks to its very active presence in the social media. They have been greatly known because of their videos posted online of beheadings of soldiers, civilians, journalists, and aid workers. They are also the ones who are responsible for the destruction of cultural heritage sites in Iraq.

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The U.S. Presidential Election

From the debates and the long election season, it had been the most talked about topic in the social media and of the news all over the world. The victory of Trump has been greatly discussed on a lot of social platforms and news.

The Refugee Crisis

Hundreds and thousands of people flee from the violence in Syria. The government of America and the Europe had grappled on how to resettle them and help them in find livelihood. Many refugees have struggled to find where to settle and they have traveled land, air and sea to seek refuge with their families

Climate Change

2016 was recorded as one of the hottest year in the century on record. Many countries have outline a plan and negotiated with each other establish a global corporation against climate change.

Data Security

A lot of hacks had happened last year. No institution was safe, not even the government and some health insurance companies. Cybersecurity was a topic that is still even talked about on the news until now.

Celebrity Deaths – lots of it

Most of the beloved celebrities of Hollywood passed away last year. From actors to musicians to comedians, the death of these well-known figures is still a very hard notion to accept to the loyal fans.  From David Bowie’s in January, the music legend Prince, Alan Rickman, Debbie Reynold’s and Carrie Fisher’s and Richard Adams  in December. Also George Micheal, Peter Vaughan, and Gene Wilder in October.

Gun Violence

In the U.S., and in the other parts of the world, mass shootings and gun laws was heavily talked about last year. It was also heavily discussed during the U.S. Presidential Elections because of the candidate’s stand against firearms regulations.